In Loving Memory Of Bobby O`Brien Lackey

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June, 2003
Bobby's oldest daughter,
Jessica Diane Lackey
graduated from high school.

JESSICA' S  WEDDING
August 9, 2003

 

The Wedding   August 9, 2003

My grandaughter, was beautiful, simply radiant. I was ushered in by my Bobby's son, Bobby II, my husband, Patrick  escorted Jessica. As they were coming down the isle, I almost burst into tears. Not only for happiness for her, (my hubby looked pretty good too) but also for her Dad, who should have been there.

It was a beautiful ceremony. Complete with candle lighters, 4 bridesmaids and groomsmen, ring bearers, flower girl. The look on Roberts face when he saw her for the first time in her bridal gown as she started down the isle, was pure love and pride.

It was really neat to see my husband dance with our Jessica at the reception. Before we left, I told her I love her and gave her a hug and kiss and told her to be happy. She said, "I am. I love you too." It was obvious by the glow on her face and the gleam in her eye, that she was happy. We told Robert that we love him and welcomed him into the family.

All in all, it was a very nice evening, and for a little while, I was able to smile and be happy.

After we left the reception, my husband took off his boutinier and said that he would like to put it on Bobbys grave. I told him it was getting too late and the gate would be locked.

So, Sunday, after church we stopped by and we both put our flowers there for our Bobby.

It was so very touching as my husband squated down and said, "Son, your daughter was beautiful last night at her wedding. This is for you, son. I love you". After we left, he said 'I think Bobby heard me'.

Anyway, it has been a while since I have seen that much emotion from him.

I am a lucky woman to have the opportunity to love them so much.

Rean....Bobbys mom forever

 
A Pleasant Surprise  
(written June 11, 2004)
 
Quite unexpectedly, our 17 year old grandson, whom we had not seen since he was a baby, showed up at our door. His mom had moved out of town with him and we did not know how to contact them.
He had never met any of our side of the family. He kept bugging his mom until she finally decided it was time to fill him in. I just wish he could have contacted us sooner so he could have known his dad, my Bobby. And could have attended his sister, Jessica's, wedding.

We went to his high school graduation last week, June 3, 2004, and he is leaving today to go to college for Aviation Technology. We are so proud of him and so happy that he came to see us. I know his dad, would be proud also. 

He was raised an only child and wanted to know if he had brothers and sisters. He was very happy when he finally met up with all of them at my grandaughters house. Night before last, he spent the night with us and we had a bbq to celebrate my daughters birthday and he got to meet lots of cousins and both my daughters. We had a wonderful time. He is really a great kid, or I should say, young man.
Adam is my Bobby's oldest son, and he has a lot of his dad's traits. At times he would say something and it would sound just like something his dad would have said. And, he really has a lot in commom with his new-found brother, B.J., and sisters, Jessica and Brittaney. He even went to the cemetary and took flowers to his dad's grave. My grandaughter told him all about my parents (his great-grandparents) and brother who are buried close to Bobby.

His mom said his feet still have not touched the ground since he contacted us.

Bobbys children June 3, 2003
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BJ, Adam, Jessica, Brittaney

January 17, 2005
Today Bobby became a grandpa for the first time.
A precious grandaughter,
Mekenzie Ann Lackey
was born today.
(Oh, my.  I guess that makes
me a Great-Grandma!)
 
 
 

Here it is December 2008
Bobby has 5 grandchildren:
Mackenzie Anne Lackey January 17, 2004
Krystal September 2005
Abrith May Lackey  2007
Donnovan Noah Barrera August 24, 2007
Dustin Christian Lackey 2008
and another one is due in a few months.